I'M NO DRAMA KING THAT'S FOR SURE
I was having a conversation with a friend tonight regarding drama in people's lives and how some get off on it for attention. I find that girls in particular like to talk about how dramatic relationships in their lives are. I could never understand how girls can analyze every little detail to one, I mean what is there to analyze. If people were more like myself and would just relax a little more the world would be a better place. I mean, little differences lead to major arguments which is just pathetic, why can't people just learn to let things slide? And it's arguments like that which end up turning into something major. Oh, my life has drama, I just don't make it more dramatic by making a big deal out of nothing.
Perhaps I'm just the big push over and let things slide a little too much. I never used to be so bad. Maybe because I used to be the kid who got made fun of growing up that I decided to just quit caring. But isn't there healthier avenues to getting attention than living what you consider a dramatic life?
Some people will do anything for attention, and that means something many of us would consider morally wrong. I sometimes wonder what the reaction of others would be if I woke up some morning with a different personality, like that of people's I know, and I just began going crazy over everything. What if I just began speaking my mind all the time, making swift decisions and never took no for an answer on anything? I do snap the odd time, but most of the time I let things fold into place themselves rather than trying to control the situation. How would my life change if I quit accepting things and began questioning things by pushing myself more? For a person who doesn't believe in fate I sure let things slide a lot as if I have no control over any situation.
While I can happily say I'm not self induged, and will listen to others drama and try to help them out, maybe I should think about what I want more and not worry about others. After all, I only live once. I should be focusing more on my wants and needs then letting others fill my head with their stories. I've learned to care less about others than before. Is that shallow? I don't think so. But unless you have a real issue that needs to be addressed, are seeking some help or advice on something, or have something to tell me that concerns me, I don't really give a damn about what you're doing. Actually that is far from true, but maybe I should take that attitude with me wherever I go from now on.
I was having a conversation with a friend tonight regarding drama in people's lives and how some get off on it for attention. I find that girls in particular like to talk about how dramatic relationships in their lives are. I could never understand how girls can analyze every little detail to one, I mean what is there to analyze. If people were more like myself and would just relax a little more the world would be a better place. I mean, little differences lead to major arguments which is just pathetic, why can't people just learn to let things slide? And it's arguments like that which end up turning into something major. Oh, my life has drama, I just don't make it more dramatic by making a big deal out of nothing.
Perhaps I'm just the big push over and let things slide a little too much. I never used to be so bad. Maybe because I used to be the kid who got made fun of growing up that I decided to just quit caring. But isn't there healthier avenues to getting attention than living what you consider a dramatic life?
Some people will do anything for attention, and that means something many of us would consider morally wrong. I sometimes wonder what the reaction of others would be if I woke up some morning with a different personality, like that of people's I know, and I just began going crazy over everything. What if I just began speaking my mind all the time, making swift decisions and never took no for an answer on anything? I do snap the odd time, but most of the time I let things fold into place themselves rather than trying to control the situation. How would my life change if I quit accepting things and began questioning things by pushing myself more? For a person who doesn't believe in fate I sure let things slide a lot as if I have no control over any situation.
While I can happily say I'm not self induged, and will listen to others drama and try to help them out, maybe I should think about what I want more and not worry about others. After all, I only live once. I should be focusing more on my wants and needs then letting others fill my head with their stories. I've learned to care less about others than before. Is that shallow? I don't think so. But unless you have a real issue that needs to be addressed, are seeking some help or advice on something, or have something to tell me that concerns me, I don't really give a damn about what you're doing. Actually that is far from true, but maybe I should take that attitude with me wherever I go from now on.
